Planning · May 10, 2026

Five places around Port Alder for a first look

A first look gives you ten private minutes before the ceremony. These are the five places around the harbor where I like to put them, and why.

A green headland with wildflowers above the sea

A first look is a few minutes alone together before the day begins. It calms nerves, gives you a quiet moment and leaves more time for the party afterwards. Here are the five places around Port Alder where I like to hold one.

1. The headland path at Gull Point Lighthouse Lawn. Open, windy and wonderfully private in the early evening.

2. The apple tree at The Salt Barn at Dunmore Farm. A gravel yard with a single tree and soft shade, a short walk from the main hall.

3. The porch at Fenwick Hall. Wooden steps and white boards, with good light after lunchtime.

4. The quay outside Harbor Rose Inn. A wide stone edge above the water. Mornings are best, before the street wakes up.

5. The upper lawn at Larkspur Cove Gardens. Hedges on three sides make the garden feel like a private room.

How to choose

Pick the place that matches your day. If your ceremony is at the hall, hold the first look on the porch. If your reception is by the water, use the quay. And if you are not sure, ask your photographer to scout it with you, because the best spot often depends on the hour.

Planning a wedding around the harbor? Send me your date and the place you love, and I will tell you if I am free.

Planning a wedding on the harbor?

Tell me your date and the place you love, and I will tell you if I am free.